Am I intuitive enough?

Ok, so no more sinistrous thoughts, let's be a bit... postive shall we. I need to put myself in a very postive mood because I am going to a date tonight with an INTERNET guy.

Have done this three times before, and I have never failed in my gut feeling about the guy

So, my gut feeling is: "we will not fall for eachother". Why? Well he is a bit of a difficult case, he is hard to judge. The picture shows a cute guy who looks quite interesting and his life and all seems good.

BUT he is

• A bit too keen
• A bit nerdy in his way of expressing
• Only 5.11 and SLIM (read: skinny, small)
• A bit too cultivated and "well-read"
• Probably a TV-nerd

So what I think I am meeting is a bit nerdy, left-wing, political, cultivated type who is proably rather fun and chatty.

He probably thinks he will meet a good looking Swede who is a bit modest and left-wing and interesting (only reason being that I haven't answered to his emails, hehehe).

But hey, I AM too nego now. At least I am learning something everytime.

There is another internet-guy that I like better though. A Norwegian bloke who seems cute and fun. He has done a few silly and slightly nerdy comments, but I can live with that.

I will see tomorrow what happened. I have had a pretty good gut feeling before, and been proven right. Is that only self-fulfilling profetias, or damn good intuition? We will have to wait and see.. No, wait! Now I remember, I wasn't that accurate before actually, hang on:

Date guy 1: Suburb-boy

My thoughts before:

Happy, go-lucky guy but too keen and I didn't like his voice. Would text me in the middle of the night when he was out, and this was BEFORE we met IRL. It was like he fell in love in me before we even met.

My thoughts after:

Disastrous date. He was nervous, his mother called during the date (true!), he seemes very uncomfortable and I think he got a bit disappointed in me. Don't know really. Very strange date.

Date 2: Designer-boy

My thoughts before:

Fun, cute, a bit crazy struggling artist. I had rather good feeling for him. Nice chats and fun on the phone. Different.

My thoughts after:

Was looking for a very particular kind of girl, and I certainly didnt fit the picture. He was anyway not my kind either, too trendy, was talking about the manager of Artic Monkeys all night and texting him. Felt a bit childish, and generally nothing for me. But rather cute, so yes, I was a little disappointed.

Date 3: Marketing-boy

My thoughts before:

I knew I wouldn't be attracted, isn't that horrible?? I am a useless dater, too narrow minded. Or maybe I am too good, maybe I am very sure of what I like? He is extremely nice, but I just knew from the picture he would not be my kind...!

My thoughts after:

This guy was indeed a really good guy, we had a fun date, he is attractive and fun. But I wasn't attracted, if you know what I mean. It was something about him I didnt like. He also looked a lot at another girl in the restaurant where we were. He felt a bit nervous and strange. But it was fun and we exchanged a few texts and emails afterwards. We should maybe try and meet up again, could be worth it. I was just starting my new job and maybe not that relaxed.

Date 4: The newly divorced-boy

This is not an internet date, but a blind-date, set up by people I know. I don't know them that well though, so hence a little bit of a mismatch...

My thoughts before:

Very close to separation, and divorce. A bit too old (42 years), with son of 5. Too much luggage? But very nice and the match-makers are good people, so why not try? Rather fun on the text-messages, but some of them were very strange too.

My thoughts after:

He is indeed a very nice guy, but yest, too close to separation, we talked about the divorce and his son for 4 hours. Which was ok, because he was nice, but no attraction whatsoever from my side. Even if he is rather youthful and boyish, still a bit too old for me. We might meet again, but there is definitely no rushing here...

So we'll see what's gonna happen tonight!

Cherio!

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