TA INGEN SKIT

Last reflection on this "Hard-to-get"-strategy as to capture the heart of Mr Right. Isn't it so that we need to have a bit bigger integrity in everything we do? I mean, we are great friends, great employees, great daughters/sisters/sons/brothers etc etc, shouldn't we in all circumstances be a bit restricted as to who we let in and who we give ourselves to? Don't we become a bit more attractive in all aspects if we are a bit more.. proud of ourselves? We are always too darn polite and well-mannered to set our own agenda!

For instance, dearest Chablis is looking for a new job, and running around on interviews and we were discussing this the other night. We concluded that a bit of coolness, and a bit of integrity and distance only creates more.. respect! Same goes for my job, if I just accept to be bullied by my peers and bosses in Bruxelles they will NEVER respect me. So instead I bite back and think "what the hell, the worst thing that can happen is that the fire me!". But of course, the reaction is the reverse. Got this great quote from dearest Iceflower, friend in Stockholm. She has this rather awful but fun boss in her very high-fly law firm. You know, this kind of woman who has always walked over corpses to get what she wants, and been hard as a rock at work. Today she said to Iceflower "Yes, I admit -- I am a bitch, if you mean baby in total control of herself". Brilliant.

Or as Grynet so rightly puts it:





"TA INGEN SKIT"