Results from new approach: "Back to my good old self Ms Straightforward"

Funny this, how we fiddle and twist and trix, and take instructions from silly books (How to Capture the Heart of Mr Right by changing personality and being difficult), for what reason? When being ourselves always gives the best results? I got a bit tired of Superman France constant "I want to see you" "I miss you" and other cute emails plus telephone calls and yada yada, without any signs of planning to meet up. So, I took the bull by its ears and asked him: "Would you like to come to London this weekend?". As clear as it gets! So I get this very cute answer that is also very straightforward explaning that he feels swamped and unsettled and needs to focus on getting a flat and other stuff. But that he really likes me and wants to see me. And he ended the email with "I like you being straightforward!". And it feels good! My gut feeling is positive. I feel that the air has been cleared, no need to analyse or twist around. This might just mean that we will drift and never meet up again. But time will tell.

Another funny thing is that I got a very unexpected answer from the Irish guy in Northern Sweden who dumped me in March, but still contacts me. Yes, the guy that I wrote a very agressive email to last week ending with "So, why do you still contact me??". Got an answer today from him "Because I like you silly!!".

Sinister Spinster vs Men-world: 2-0. He he.



PS. There will soon be a book-fire. I have a couple of mind-twisting and depressive books to get rid of! ASAP