Slightly bored here today. Was emailing a bit with gorgeous TomBoy Spain and got a bit inspired. She thinks I should chase up Superman France again. So I will. For her sake.. and for the sake of EXCITEMENT. So now I do it! I send him an email to see what he is doing.
Hold on to your seats ladies and gentlement. Here we go!
LALALALALLAAAAAAAA. Wonderlovely. 6 days until I will meet the man of my dreams, we will fall in love instantly, move into my new flat on approx 25th of January (give and take). We will forever celebrate the 5th of December as the day when the world started moving under our feet, when we could visualize the face of our children. Literally, when a new ERA of the Spinster's life started. As a non-Spinster.
This summer I was browsing around a site called "SUGARDADDIE" and there he was. No, I had NOT gone completely mad or changed personality. Just curious. And then I bumped into this seemingly really nice guy. We emailed and texted for a few weeks, but then he stopped. Turned out he had met someone.
Three weeks ago he texted to see if I was still "around". I suppose his previous engagement didn't quite work out. So, now he has asked me for a date next Tuesday.
I suppose I did stand out from the other "sugarbabes" on the website: The only picture he has of me is when I am watching Sweden play England in the World Cup. I have no make up on and I am wearing a Sweden-shirt. holding a Sweden-dressed baby with earphones. Funny picture, by all means... but why did I send this?
Question is,,, what do we expect?
Last week my Italian crazy summer-lover called me three times. I didn't pick up. Not that I wanted to be difficult. Just didn't feel like it. Then I got two text-messages "Wen can I cal u?" and "Is your bat stil low dahling? ". Last thing I heard from him was a text message three months ago "Ok if you dont want me anymore just sand me a yes and I will cancel you forever". And I texted YES. I guess I got a bit curious in this sudden interest. So I called him.
- "Heeeeloo Daahling", I heard his soft whiskey voice.
- "Whazzup Roberto?"
- "Wat do you mean?", he continued in his strong melodical Italian accent.
- "Why have you been chasing me this week?"
- "Ahh, daahling, I needed to say a few things..." he mutters. My mind started to make great rollercoaster loops: "My god, this is it! He will now tell me he has a deadly disease and I will be finished in 3 months!" I took a deep breath.
- "How come you have my number, I thought you erased me forever? ", I sharpened my voice.
- "Oh you know swettie, you are EVERYWHERE!"
- "So, what was it that you wanted".
- "But swettie pie, you can't ask like dat. You know I am an emotions man. I wanted to tell you things when I called on Wednesday. But I don't feel like this now."
- "WHAT THINGS ROBERTO?"
- "Oooo, now you get a bit curious you little sexy Ice-cube, warm up, I was just... thinking of you...!" he giggled, obviously very pleased with my interest in him.
I sighed of relief. Seemed as if I am not fatally ill. Just still in arm-lengths reach of a crazy Italian with a too strong interest in Jack Daniels.
There sure is no such thing as a NEW YEAR!
As said below, only one month to go of 2007 and things are looking very promising! I MIGHT be moving in to a new flat, I have a great Closing of the Books of 2007, and generally, I feel great.
So this I need to celebrate with a NEW BLOG LAYOUT!!
Hmm, what do you think? Tried to make it a bit sophisticated, a bit dazzling. Not that I am a whizz on Web-design, but must proudly say I feel a bit content...
Plus, found this old great pic of myself in Rome. I just adored those shoes ;-).
Year end is coming up and with this, Closing of the books. My fiscal year is following the calendar year, so 31st of December is the last day of this year. Hence, one month and 3 days to go in order to improve the figures for this year.
Summary:
This has been a unique year in the Spinster's life, being the typical serial monogamist. Following the strategy of "I shall be true to myself", no idiotic relationships have been started and some have been ended. The year has been carachterized by "it's a number's game" with very high risk-taking and volume. Which gives good credits. But of course this also gives effects on the confidence too, so beware a bit of this in the future.
So, what are the results of the Spinster vs the Man-world of 2006?
Q1:
Quarter ended in 1 point.
Q2:
Quarter ended in Minus 1 points
Mid year report: The Spinster is NOT doing particularily well, confidence is DOWN. Internet-dating is NOT recommended as strategy.
Q3:
Quarter ended in 0 points.
Q4:
Amazingly, the last quarter is really picking up!
Current Q4 balance: 2 points!
Goodwill account: Extra bonus for dumping cheating to-be-married guy and for daring taking risks (internet dating etc). Badwill for jumping into bed with unknown guys: VERY DANGEROUS!
yes, the men are short
no, it is not safe
yes, it´s raining all the time
but, hey, how I love south america. colombia and bogota are better than I thought. it´s green, humid, beautiful mountains and people are extremely nice. the wonderful mountains have a sentimental sadness about them that I just love so much. it's like they are standing above all the problems that happen on their feet. and again, I start thinking that I should go here for some time. in fact, in bogota you can live perfectly fine for 400-500 pounds a month. including living, eating out, travelling.
so, if I can safe up to 5000 pounds, this would last me for a good 6 months that I could write my book, learn spanish and see the whole of this beautiful continent...
and if I don´t do this, I am sure I will regret it. when I sit there with 3 screaming children, a husband that I never see the face of, stuck somewhere in a boring surburb.
alrajt, I AM a bit too neggo to the family life, and I'm sure it doesn't have to be all that bad. but honeys, how good it is to be the free and careless spinster sometimes...
puss
Dear all,
If you are wondering what happened to Superman France, pls take part in this little quizz-thingie.
Did he:
1. ...find a Lois Lane de Paris and flew away with her?
2. ...go into depression over his useless job and unbearable living situation?
3. ...crash on his Vespa and is now convalescent in a Parisian hospital being fed by curvy nurses?
4. ...let his beard grow into the keyboard whilst digging into geeky codes of complicated systems?
5. ...get struck by masculine reality and logic telling him "this thing with the girl in London WILL NOT WORK"?
6. ...wake up one day realizing that he did NOT think this girl in London was SLIGHTEST sexy nor fun nor attractive nor nothing?
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Answer my friend, we don't know. Because SILENCIUM has fallen over him. Ok we very occasionally email and he is still sweet, but it is very... OCCASIONAL. So, to not get too sad by all of this, I have decided that it is a mix of numbers 2 and 5, but that he of course thinks that I am the best thing that ever happened to the world.
Puss
.. and they wont be for a couple a weeks when I will be going to COLOMBIA! Can you just imagine the feeling of being in South America? Well of course, maybe all of you have already been there, but for those who haven't -- it's magic! The people are nice and beautiful and the culture is relaxed and sensual. mmmm, lovely. and the men are gorgeous. those that reach over my hips of course. ok, they aren't that many, but still. and ok, about 75% of them will want to in best case rob me, and in worst kidnap and kill me for money. but hey, it's c o l o m b i a !!!!
what if I fall in love with Pable Escobar's follower, the new drug-king of the djungle?? what if I bump into the inca king of the continent and I decide to stay there and have cute inca-babies and make precious gold-jewellery for the rest of my days?
we don't know this, all we know is that ANYTHING can happen in the Spinster-life...
