How will I know?
Without doubt, my lovely Mr Sketch still does everything right: he calls when he says, he meets up with me as planned and, I think he agrees, we have a great time together. It's just so easy and fun and we have so much in common. Plus, we are very attracted to eachother. Yippee! But I'm getting to the point when I want to have more of him now. Am I too impatient? We've only met up maybe 4-5 times, but since beginning of December, but I don't feel like having a once-a-week-dating forever! Plus, his level of communication is rather low too. A little text every now and then would be rather nice...actually.
He is really busy all the time. Or is he? Or is he balancing some other 4 dates as well? Is he trying to stretch the dating period so he doesn't have to face all the complications that will come if he gets involved? His life situation is very messy indeed, agreed. He still shares flat with his old girlfriend that he broke up with last summer and for financial reasons they are sharing it until it can be sold. Would he get together with someone, this would obviously mean trouble. (My ex and I could only bear maximum 2 nights in our flat together after our 9-year-relationship/marriage-split-up. I don't understand how they can manage it!)
Where am I in all of this? A transition girl? A fun bird he sees and likes, but won't go any further with? Hm, not sure if I like this. Do I really like him that much that I want to go get deeper into all of this? As I've said before, time will tell.

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Crivens! (as my jolly ol' nac mac feegle would say)
He still shares a flat with his ex...and you maybe see him once a week...sounds a bit dodge although I seriously hope for your part he isn't just fooling around because from the sounds of things you two are a pretty good match! Plus, he seems to make you happy and that's good. I agree though, a text now and then would certainly be a nice thing!
CRIVENS! lovely word, thanks for adding that to my foreign vocabulary. and this story does sound a bit dodge, fully agree. I suppose I have to be glad he's at least honest about it...
am seeing him tomorrow, will try to understand a bit more then. on verra.
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