Analysis phase
"You said what? TWO months???", six eyes, size of dinner plates, where staring at me in strong disbelief. "But WHY??" their chockedly continued. Well, I answered, and gave a brief introduction to my new philosophy and conviction, announced a few days ago. After I had described my thoughts that a woman needs to refrain from sex to not fool her own feelings, my handsome friend Mr Eastwood sighed silently and muttered "thank God I´m gay".
And after discussions I admitted, that also women (even myself, although I try to keep a very serious attitude, right?), can have temporary sex, but not for very long. Either women loose interest, or they fall in love. We concluded that within the first couple of weeks of dating , there has to be a decision if the guy is going to be dumped (a "shoot"), a friend, a shag or something serious (a "marry"). After this very conscious decision has been made, one is allowed to do whatever, be it insane upside-down gorilla-sex, or intimate candle-lit dinner and creation of something a bit longer lasting.
Well, for the moment I am in the analysis phase with a couple of objects. Dating this sparkling and friendly music-producer that I met last weekend. Cute and fun, but think he will fall into the friend-section. Then I have a rather regular communication over MSN and telephone with a guy that I haven´t met IRL, a bit weird. This is the old Sugardaddy that I met on the net last summer. Yes, the very one getting a fork right up his ass in December.. Plus a few other bubbling things.. Pretty good pipe actually.
We´ll see where it all ends up, in Zoo or in Lady and the Tramp-spirit.
Happy weekend.
6 comments:
My earth but you do get around in the dating department, don't you?! hahahaha, well, dating widely is a good thing. You get to know a lot of people.
Great to be reading your blog again!
Angel! Nice to hear from you. Well, one has to keep up the activity levels, right? And absolutely truthfully, I really like people and getting to know people so it´s all good.
Hope you´re enjoying London!
agree - it's a great way to get to know people. Wish I was better at it. I really do. But it's hard doing things you're not good at , isn't it? Practise is the way forward.
or as our dear Ingemar Stenmark, top Swedish skiier of all times, answered when another tiresome journalist asked him about how come he could be such a great skiier... "Hä ä ba å åk". Translates to "I just go". Easy. Just do it.
puzzz
Am curious....where do you work?
viki,
very sorry for late reply on this! I work a little bit here and there, a lot from home, from Brussels but I have an office around Tottenham Court Road too.
now I am curious, why do you ask?
SiniSpins
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