Trial and Error -- My Strategy

Yep, has always been, will continue to be and I willl never leave it -- until the end of my days! I AM opportunity driven, positive and fantastically romantic and this is not stopping. Ever. Yes, I have gone into a number of "traps" and fooled myself perhaps, but hey -- I learned a lot on this too. My dear friend Charlie and I had a discussion on this this week, regarding the fact that he has met someone that he likes and, needless to say, becomes dead scared. He asked me:

- "What do you say Spinster, should we start becoming cynical and scared and find faults immediately when we meet someone interesting, to protect ourselves from falling, to shield our inner hearts and become hard and tough?"
- "No chance in hell" I replied without a shadow of doubt "I am much rather crying for 4 weeks and loosing my face than loosing my passionate personality. Sooner or later you recover from the heart-throb, paint your toenails bright red, get the best frock on and just GET ON WITH IT. Ready for the world."

And sooner or later, Trial and Error will be Trial and Success, it´s a winning game.

Hallelujah.